Bridges

Last night at our District Council service, General Superintendent George O. Wood made a profound statement about relationships.  “It is easier to burn a bridge than to build one.”Bridge

This is applicable to all of our relationships.  We have a decision to make as to how we will handle conflict and hurt.  Will we burn the bridge, forsake the relationship and cut that person off from our life?  Or will we build a bridge to that person, make amends and try to forgive, mend and heal?

Too often, we take the easy road.  Burn the bridge and make sure that we never get hurt again.  Although that never truly heals the hurt.  It only suppresses it and “makes us feel better” that we have cut them off.  The hard road is to face the pain and the person who caused it or at least resolve in our heart that we are going to extend the hand and be willing to meet in the middle.

Many relationships end because we fail to think it is important enough to save.  We often walk away feeling like life is better off without that person in our life.  We must, however, see things the way God would want.  Jesus reached out to Judas, even though his heart was bent to betray Christ.  Jesus ministered to Peter, even after Peter betrayed Him three times.  Christ, loved us and died for us, while we were yet sinners.  We were the enemies of God but He built a bridge in the form of the Cross to reconcile our relationship.

Who is it in your life that we need to build a bridge to?

James The Just

We have been kicking back a little today before District Council service tonight.  I am reading Foxe’s Book of Martyrs again this week.  I am simply in awe of the people who have laid down their lives for Christ.  Their martyrdom was  only a shadow compared to their life.

I was moved by the recounting of the life of James the Just, the first pastor of the church in Jerusalem.  The book says about James, “He used to enter into the temple alone, and there fall upon his knees, ask remission for the people; so that his knees, by oft kneeling (for worshipping God, and craving forgiveness for the people), lost the sense of feeling, being benumbed and hardened like the knees of a camel.  He was for the excellency of his just life, called ‘The just’ and, ‘The safeguard of the people’.”

What a man!  To have that as a testimony still alive 1900 years later speaks of a life that was lived for the glory of God.  I am convicted of such a life.  How often am I found on my knees interceding for the forgiveness of man?  Could I be called a safeguard of the people?  What about you?

District Council 2009

Sonya and I are in Little Rock for a couple of days for the Arkansas District Council.  I am looking forward to the ministry this week and sitting under some good preaching.  One of the greatest things about District Council and any other conference is the fact that we can soak it in and not be in charge of anything.  As a pastor, Sunday services are more about leading and feeding rather than  receiving.  It is God’s call for a pastor to lead the flock but is nice to step back for a few days and enjoy being ministered to.

It will be interesting for us in a new district this year.  We spent ten years in South Texas District and council was always a reunion of friends.  Here we do not know alot of people so we are looking forward to meeting new people and building new friendships.

Super Mom

On mother’s day I am thankful for my mom.  Without her, I wouldn’t be here!  I am thankful that I was raised in church and learned of Christ’s love for me.  Happy Mother’s Day, mom!

I am also thankful for Sonya, who is Super Mom.  When she leaves for a couple of hours and I am with the kids (namely, Hannah), I realize how much Sonya does.  She is my hero!  She is a pastor’s wife, serves in ministry, home-schools our 15 years old son and chases after our 2 year old.  She is able to keep the house clean, bills paid, groceries stocked, dinner cooked. She is able to leap tall buildings with a single bound and stop a bullet with her teeth.  Okay, I am getting a little carried away. 

She does a tremendous job raising her family and I am blessed to have her as the mother of my children.  I love you, Cheney (BTW: that’s what we call each other)!

Saying The Same Thing Different Ways

I was born and bred in Texas.  I speak the Texan language.  I say things the Texas way.  Until six months ago, I had never lived outside of my native homeland and now have been introduced to a culture that says things a different way.  Many things make sense, others do not not.  Now, however, I find myself saying things in the language of others.

In Northwest Arkansas, you cannot say that the people here speak Arkansan language, because they are transplants from North, East, West (I haven’t found many from the South, for whatever reason.)  There are some universal phrases that I have been learning that have taken a little time to figure out.  Being a Southern boy, I have picked up on a few of these and have done my best to interpret what they are saying.

Here goes:

You’ins – pronounced You Ins – This is the northern way of saying Ya’ll.  This was the toughest one for me to figure out.  But to me it is a cool word.

Creeks – pronounced Cricks – these are the small streams of water that run through the mountains and valleys.  We are now trying to re-train Sonya how to say this word.

Hollows – pronounced Hollars – A hollow is a a forest of trees as the mountains descend into the valley and make up a clump of trees.  I figured this one out when we were hiking one day.  They are called hollars because when you get in there you can hollar real loud and hear an echo:)

Weed-whip – AKA Weed Eat – This one makes the most sense to me.  For years us Texans have called it Weed-Eating, when in fact our weed eater doesn’t actually eat the weeds.  It does indeed whip them and knock them down.  Now I am re-programming myself to say Weed-whip.  The only consolation is that there is an actual brand that is called Weed-eater.  That is why we call every brand, weed-eater.  Kind of like the next word.

Coke – Every soda under the sun.  Here up north they call it Soda or Pop.  Down south every brand is known as a Coke.  The question is always asked, “What kind of Coke do you want?”  The answer could be DR. Pepper, Pepsi, Orange Crush etc.  We go to Coke machines down South, up here they are Soda Machines.

The point to all of this is that different people say things different ways and understand things different ways.  When communicating, we must speak how we are comfortable and in our normal language.  It is the same with communicating the gospel.  We must share the gospel in ways that are effective and the way people understand. 

We do not have to speak in King James language.  It is not more holy to talk or pray that way.  Rather, we should meet people where they are.  Talk where they can understand and then let the Holy Spirit work in their hearts.  Each person has a way of saying things and understanding things.  As believers, we must speak in a way that the gospel goes out and God does the rest. 

Disclaimer: I am not poking fun at the way Northerners talk.  I have a sneaky suspicion that I speak another language:)  We all have interesting ways to say things.

Work of the Holy Spirit

Here is a thought-provoking article by Ray Ortlund about the contrast between the Holy Spirit’s conviction and the Devil’s accusation.

"He will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment." John 16:8
". . . the accuser of our brothers has been thrown down . . . ." Revelation 12:10

How can I tell the difference between the convicting ministry of the Holy Spirit and the accusing attacks of Satan? Some thoughts:

1. The Holy Spirit puts his finger on a specific sin I have committed, something concrete I can own and confess, but the accusations of Satan are vague and simply demoralizing.

2. The Holy Spirit shows me Christ, the mighty Friend of sinners, but the devil wants me spiraling down into negative self-focus.

3. The Holy Spirit leads me to a threshold of new life, but the devil wants to paralyze me where I am.

4. The Holy Spirit brings brings peace of heart along with a new hatred of sin, so that I bow before Jesus in reconsecration, but the devil offers peace of mind with smug relief, so that I fold my arms and say, "There, that’s over with."

5. The Holy Spirit helps me to be so open to God that I allow him to control the conversation, but the devil tempts me to take off the table certain questions I just don’t want God to talk to me about.

We are thankful for our dear Friend, the Holy Spirit.

HT: Ray Ortlund

National Day of Prayer

Today is the National Day of Prayer and if there is ever a time to pray, it is now.  America needs Christ!  I challenge you today to spend time interceding for this great land. 

Here are some ways to pray:

Pray for your local church and pastor.

Pray for our Government and its leaders.

Pray for our President. (Wisdom, Strength, Protection, Courage, Salvation)

Pray for our nation:
Forgive us for the abortions and not valuing life that God has created.
   Forgive our obsession with sexual permissiveness.
   Forgive us for abandoning godly principles.
   Forgive us for becoming complacent.”

Pray for a spiritual awakening of Christ’s Body of Believers that would begin in each of us.

Pray for God to send a revival to our city, our nation, and our world.

Pray for families to embrace Godly standards.

Pray for our educational systems and teachers