Life in general
Smelly Boys
We had a great time for Thanksgiving with Sonya’s family. Two of her brothers and their families were there with their kids. Hannah had a great time playing with all our nieces and nephews (6 of them were there). She ran around and played and wore herself out. She was playing with two of our nieces and one of our nephews when she ran up to me and said, “Boys are smelly!” I replied, “you better believe it!”
That was music to my ears, “Boys are smelly!” I am trying to put that in her head until she is out of high school. When she finally gets old enough to date (25 yrs old), I will begin telling her that boys aren’t all that bad. Hannah is only two but I get pretty nerved up thinking about her dating. I am saving my money for a lie detector and an elephant gun so I will be prepared when her dates come over. I will also be buying a nice 4 door so all of us will be comfortable on our double dates. In case you are wondering, if they ask Hannah out, they are asking me out:) So for the time being, I am brainwashing her that boys are smelly.
Things To Be Thankful For
On this Thanksgiving Day we should be counting our blessings. There are many things I am thankful for:
1. Salvation – I am thankful that Jesus rescued my soul and forgave my sins.
2. Satisfaction – He satisfies me like no one else can.
3. Family – I love my family. My beautiful wife and kids.
4. Ministry – I am thankful He has called me.
What are you thankful for?
Thanksgiving Service
Last night, I had the privilege to share with a Spanish congregation in Rogers. Pastor Armando is a new friend and he invited me to share what Thanksgiving means to me. I had a wonderful time last night in the service and during the fellowship dinner that followed.
It was my first time to preach with an interpreter and I never knew it could be so tough. When I preach my brain moves as fast as I speak. Those of you that know me understand that my lips move fast and that means my brain moves fast. Now, I have preached where my lips moved faster than my brain and I got in trouble:) So, as I would share a line of my message, Pastor Armando would interpret. It was tough to keep my train of thought. The people were responsive, however, and they all made me feel welcome.
It was interesting as an American going through a whole service that was primarily Spanish speaking. I was trying to remember my two years of Spanish class to pick up tidbits of what was being said. The fact of the matter was that whether I understood Spanish or not, we are of one body, the body of Christ. Just being among the brethren was awesome. Regardless of language barriers, we are born of the same Spirit and you could sense the presence of God in the service, even if I couldn’t understand everything being said.
Last night, challenged me to be more mindful of the opportunity for missions here at home. Represented in Pastor Armando’s congregation are people from Mexico, Central and South America. He is a missionary in his own right to a dozen nations right here in Rogers. God is tremendously blessing this ministry and you can tell He is at work.
Church Thanksgiving Dinner
We had a great time at our church thanksgiving dinner last night. I would estimate close to 100 people were there and we enjoyed a good time of fellowship. The fried turkey was the best I have ever eaten (props to Stan and Jimmy). All of the sides and desserts were delicious. I was impressed with the large turnout we had for the meal.
Tonight, I will be sharing thanksgiving dinner with the local Spanish Assembly of God church. Josh and I will be joining them for their service and dinner. I look forward to spending time with Pastor Armando and his congregation. They have been a blessing to our church in the recent months and God is tremendously blessing their ministry.
Evangelism Strategy
I had lunch today with one of the Chi Alpha missionaries at the University of Arkansas. Tim was a sharp guy that has a passion for college students. He is responsible for taking care of the international students at U of A. It is amazing the opportunity for ministry on a college campus. On any college campus there are around 100 nations represented. These are students who will take their education back to their home country and become that nation’s leaders. What an opportunity to shape the nations by reaching them on an American University Campus.
Tim shared with me a strategy that is used on the campus that I think can be used by any believer no matter where they are. It is perfect for the marketplace as well as our neighborhoods. Tim shared with me the four B’s:
1. Befriend – Befriend someone and spend time with them. Just be friends. Not just be there to preach to them but first let them know you genuinely care about them personally.
2. Belong – Invite them to belong to you and your life. This is a good place to invite them to a church function or to be with a small group of like-minded believers. Also to see how you live life.
3. Behavior – This is where they begin to see the difference in your life and notice something that they might want. It is the place where you have consistently lived a Christ-like life and they know you strive to be different in a good way.
4. Believe – After you befriend them and invite them to belong, they have had time to witness your behavior. Now that they see a difference, they are ready to know what you believe. The door begins to open to share Christ and His grace for your new friend.
Look into your life and see where you can use the 4 B’s. Too many people begin by trying to make people believe before they are willing to befriend them. Befriend with the purpose to get them to believe.
Unwritten Dreams Part 2
I shared about my unwritten dreams but there are also dreams I have for others.
1. I have a dream for Sonya to one day be able to record a CD.
2. I have a dream for Sonya to flourish in a ministry that complements her giftings more than just what I have needed her for. She has always filled in wherever needed but I dream of the day that she is able to do what burns in her heart. I will not say what that is, but you can ask her:)
3. I have a dream for Joshua to grow up and be a man of God and to serve Jesus with all of His heart. I dream of the day that he can work with me in ministry but only if he is called by God.
4. I have a dream that our church will record a live worship CD one day.
5. I have a dream that we will one day write our own worship songs.
6. I have a dream that my brother will surrender his life to Christ as well as his household.
7. I have a dream that one day I will be able to buy my in-laws a home near ours. (and yes if I had the money, I would buy my parents one too:))
Unwritten Dreams
Everybody has dreams in life and some of those dreams we carry secretly for many years. There are some dreams that I have had for many years that very few people know. In fact, most of these things only Sonya knows. Recently I was reading about our dreams in life and the author stated that in order to see our dreams fulfilled we must learn to vocalize them. The author’s premise was to share our dreams in case someone wants to partner with you in those dreams.
Here are several of the dreams that I have carried for many years:
1. To publish a book through a good book publisher. (I have held this dream since I was a child).
2. To have a radio program. Not just a preaching program but also a morning drive devotional. A two minute devotional that inspires others for the day. It will be called “Thoughts For The Journey”.
3. To begin a network of churches. To be a mother church and send out church planters in the surrounding communities to plant a church.
4. To preach a major conference and share things that God has laid on my heart for His church.
5. To raise up young people to mentor them into full-time ministry.
These are some of my unwritten dreams that one day I pray will come to pass.